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“There is no harm in gambling as long as it’s controlled and not in control of you”.

This story is all too-common with punters getting carried away and we feel sometimes a horror story about gambling dangers can wake us up and to going the same course.

Childhood holidays in coastal resorts with seemingly innocent family trips to amusement arcades.  The enticement of the flashing lights and the chance of winning some money can be alluring to progenies, and may well also be the start of a life-long gambling habit. This was certainly the case for gambling addict who has courageously spoke to us.

The identity of the punter is kept unidentified due to the nature of the case, but he has gone into detail about how he went on to lose £450,000 in the clutch of a gambling addiction that continued over an extent of twenty years and never lessened.

 “As a child, the flashing lights in the seaside arcades fascinated me. Looking back now I can see that my interest in gambling is quite deep-rooted. My Father didn’t let me play the arcade machines; I just used to watch him enjoying himself. From there I advanced to some bets on the table football in the school communal room when I was around 13. We just used to bet trivial amounts – I doubt the teachers had any inkling about what was going on.”

On the way home from school I used to pass the bookmaker’s, and it wasn’t long before he was getting freed of his school tie and dropping in regularly to place a bet on the horses or anything that moved to be very candid.

 “I was probably only about 15 at the time, at this stage, I had quite a well-paid part-time job, and it wasn’t long before I was spending all my wages in the bookies. My gambling was starting to become an addiction – all I was concerned in was winning money. I came from quite a large family and my Mum was busy working, so she didn’t really notice what was happening to me.

He added “At 16 I left school and went out to work. As soon as I received my wages on a Friday, I would lose the whole lot on the fruit machines. Once I was old enough to go to pubs my gambling started to intensify, as I began to use the pub machines as well. Losing all this money was making me feel more and more anxious, although no-one knew, as I kept everything a clandestine from my family and friends which I comprehend now was totally erroneous.

“I started to clasp that my gambling was problematic, but I didn’t really know what to do. Friends started to bail me out – I didn’t even have enough to pay my parents for my keep. At the same time, I sustained to gamble all my wages.

“At the age of 17 I managed to get into a casino with someone else’s driving licence and this was the start of a new pattern for me. Nights out starting with the pub, then a club, then the casino. I was playing machines with much larger jackpot, as well as roulette and games of black jack. I’d even make justifications with my employer, phone in sick and then go to the casino instead of going to work. For me, it’s always been the idea of winning large amounts of money that was so appealing. But you always lose far more than you ever win.”.

“My Gambling addiction has taken so much of my life away. I have learnt so many lessons, but it’s been incredibly outrageous. When I think of all the things, I could have had with the money that I earned!  But instead it was wasted through gambling. I do have my own property now, but it’s nothing like the one I would have had if I’d not been dependent to gambling.

 “Gambling is certainly an addiction – it changes you mentally and physically and then brings out the worst in you. Most of my friends know nothing about this side of my life – they wouldn’t believe it if they did know. I have ended up living a lie and have become treacherously close to taking my own life as result. I’ve made so many errors and the damage I have done to myself is immeasurable.”

“The stress on my body has led to various physical health problems such as chest pains, insomnia, and dehydration. I put this down to the trauma that gambling addiction puts on the body. You end up staying up really late, and trying to work out how to get yourself out of the mess you are in.”

 “I have to say that sometimes the staff in the bookies have been kind to me, and one nice staff member told me she couldn’t bear to see me like this (gamblers so easily forget that the staff are human too). I’ve been known to head-butt the machines on occasions. It’s like I became a different person. You are in a different world, in a bubble. And when you use your debit card to pay for the gambling, it doesn’t even really feel like it’s your money, you’re spending. You don’t see the banknotes, and so you don’t really relate to it. I truly believe that these machines are fixed, as you lose much more money than you should. But sometimes I’m on such a downward spiral, that I feel I have no choice but to go back in and gamble again.

“I’ve also become involved in internet gambling after I saw mainstream television advertisements with well-known people endorsing online bingo or other forms of gambling. I’m not so sure that the famous people care too much about the mutilation that can be done if the susceptible follow their guidance.

 “Spread-betting on the internet also led me to lose around £60,000 in three months, at a time when I really thought I had got my gambling under control. It’s so inviting and so easy, and you lose so much. Spread betting is a form of gambling with higher risks, the problem being that the general public who spread bet don’t have the know-how that the stock market people have. Let’s face it, with recent stock market personnel losing billions in one fell swoop, what chance does this give Mr Joe public? Again, this is a way to make the rich richer and the less privileged penniless!

The experiences have motivated him to make a difference and to hopefully avert others from taking the same path as him.

“I’m now trying to channel my energies in a positive way. Gambling has mugged me of my energy and happiness in my life and I’m now claiming this back by working with and not against my self-beliefs. There are no short cuts in this life – work hard and you will be rewarded.

Though gambling can be so much fun and enjoyment it is not worth betting what you cannot afford or you will likely lose the lot and more .It is better to learn from others mistakes rather than experiencing it yourself.